IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Waited Until My Wedding Night to Lose My Virginity and I Wish I Hadn’t [x]
This is a long read but it’s interesting. Really sad though.
“I am now thoroughly convinced that the entire concept of virginity is used to control female sexuality.”
“I am now thoroughly convinced that the entire concept of virginity is used to control female sexuality.”
This, Writers.
Stop writing about virginity as if it’s magically important.
It’s not.
Also: penetrative sex should not be painful. penetration might be uncomfortable the first few times, but the default should NEVER be pain.
you also shouldn’t necessarily be bleeding if you’re having penetrative vaginal sex (and you definitely shouldn’t be bleeding from anal sex). sometimes the hymen may bleed a little when it’s stretched (not “broken”), but it’s not the default. and hymens can be stretched through a variety of activities that aren’t sexual and some people are just naturally born with hymens that are more open.
a hymen is not indicative of sexual activity.
and penetration is not required for sex.
